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Life advice
“I want more of what they have.” [Enter your own life question/ your pronouns] To be fair so do you. You have friends that care about you and you have money in the bank. You have clothes and roof and a girlfriend you really like. Just dont make money your God. Its dark down there and quite frankly fruitless. Just remember to keep focus on certain things. Keep balance in mind, to say yes is to say no to another. But the yes you need to keep alive is your obedience to God. I pray for you often. So yeah. I love you man. Also don’t focus too much on…
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Thriving is for today
Sometimes we like to think of things in future tense. We think, ”I’ll start tomorrow,” ”when I’m healed I can do that.” There are circumstances that hinder our growth at times like surgeries, living restrictions, etc. but even if we can not reach our goal tomorrow, we can still strive for it. God has given us the power of the holy spirit so that means we are not facing today alone. We have access to the living God to give us strength, comfort and peace. That means we can live each day with purpose. We don’t live ordinary lives, everything is extravagant because that is who our God is. Some…
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Providence
Some days its easier to see the hand of God in your life than others. Some days we get gentle reminders of the blessings in our life and some days we just see the struggle and hardships It’s okay to acknowledge the pain, and trials and feel them. That is better than believing you have to be perfectly positive and never say that its hard or lousy to be dealing with what you are. God provides for us monetarily, emotionally, and physically. The most important one I’ve been dealing with is getting through a season of depression. God has provided me a bible app, a physical bible, youtube to watch…
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Grief takes time
We’ve all experienced loss in some form or another. Some are blessed enough to have not experienced loss of a close loved one yet in their lives. Loss creates a void in us. A hole where their love once sat, until they were unable to love us anymore. Sometimes grief can overtake us. It hurts so bad when that happens, but the good news is we’re not alone in our suffering, for Jesus experienced loss too. The most commonly talked about grief Jesus experienced is when his good friend Lazarus passed away while Jesus was on the way to visit him. Though Jesus knew his friend would pass before he…
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Letting Kids be Kids
Many people can look back on their childhoods and say what they would like to change or what they would do/give to their own kids. These days, we need to let kids be kids. Kids are dealing with fear from shootings, comparison from seeing “perfect bodies” on the internet and how many likes they can get on their posts. Kids should be able to play and not worry about money or their clothes or food. Sometimes it’s hard to provide things when you are first starting out but kids don’t need to hear about the struggle until they are old enough to know they are safe and taken care of.…
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What is good for you?
It’s easy to look at what is good for you and what you should do. There’s green smoothies, running, reading, working, biking. The list goes on and on. Sometimes you just got to choose little habits to add into your life. Small things that once added up over time can accumulate into something big. you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. (Colossians 3:12) But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, (Galatians 5:22) God gives us good things all the time. Sometimes we don’t realize the good until later. Focusing on the good allows us to more good. Have…
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Suffering
When we’re going through a hard time it’s important to feel the emotions. Look at them, address them and validate yourself. In a Bible study on the Bible app called “The Shock of Suffering,” it stated a lot of instances of more obvious suffering. Instances like the Holocaust. When you focus on the idea that other people are suffering more than you and your suffering is too small or an inconvenience you are devaluing your situation. What you’re going through right now might not be on the scale of persecution to the point of death but it is still painful for you. Comparing yourself, your life, your circumstances to others…
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Who are you
What are you facing currently? Are you up for the fight, or are you laying low hoping to escape the situations in life? Either can be viable options depending on what you’re going through. The battles of this life always remind me of our purpose. Everyone has a different purpose according to their abilities and passions. But we also have one purpose we all share. WE are meant to love and be loved. Loved by the father and love those around us. Seems simple but sometimes our flesh gets in the way. Shame, pain, and hatred can be barriers we face. But the good news is Jesus is graceful. He…
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Finding good in the little things
This week has been very busy in my own life. Mean customers, lots of chores to do at home, appointments and phone calls to be made…lets say it hasn’t been easy. On those days where it feels like so many things are going right just to have them or other things go wrong, what do you do? It can be very easy to say screw it, “I’m over it”, and be in a bad mood. This happens a lot, at least for me. Even in the bad I look for the good as well. Even in a sad movie I saw my favorite number meaning even before I ever knew…
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Not all miracles are big
A couple weeks ago I stood at my dresser crying because I didn’t feel good about myself. I didn’t like the way my clothes fit and how my body looked. We all deal with this in some way. There are days where we feel too big, like we’re too much! Others feel tiny, too small, not enough. You are neither too big or too small. You’re perfect as you are. You are just right! I was reminded of that day where crying and sadness of my body stole my joy, and all I could say is “Lord I wish I could have some nice clothes for Christmas.” God is not…